The community of Toms River and the broader emergency management and homeland security fields are mourning the loss of Paul Perillo, a respected leader in Recovery Inter-Agency Coordination with FERO Homeland Security, who passed away unexpectedly.
Paul Perillo spent his entire professional life in service to others. His commitment to public safety and emergency preparedness set the gold standard in cross-agency collaboration. In his role with FERO Homeland Security, Paul became an essential figure in disaster response across local, state, and federal levels. Whether it was coordinating multi-agency operations during natural disasters or navigating the complexities of homeland security threats, Paul’s steady hand and clear thinking were always valued.
Known for his analytical mind and calm demeanor, Paul also had a gift for mentoring the next generation. He welcomed questions, encouraged innovation, and fostered cooperation between agencies, often smoothing out bureaucratic rough edges to make real progress possible. His colleagues say that Paul had an uncanny ability to bring order to chaos—something that made him an irreplaceable figure in crisis response circles.
Born and raised in Toms River, Paul never forgot where he came from. Even as his career took him to major national operations, he remained deeply rooted in his hometown. His efforts often took place behind the scenes, but his contributions directly impacted the safety and well-being of thousands.
Outside the workplace, Paul was known for his love of sailing on Barnegat Bay, his deep conversations over coffee, and his ongoing work with veterans and local civic organizations. His humility, compassion, and dry sense of humor made him a joy to be around.
Paul Perillo’s passing is a devastating loss—not only to his family and friends but to every community that benefited from his tireless efforts. His legacy is one of integrity, coordination, and quiet strength.
Details for services will be announced by the family. In lieu of flowers, they ask that donations be made in Paul’s name to the New Jersey Emergency Preparedness Association or to a local veterans’ group.
